MISSING or MISS??

According to oxford dictionary missing is refer to; lost or not in the right or usual place while miss refer to; feel sad because it is not with you anymore..by looking at the meaning, we can conclude that MISSING n MISS indirectly connected to each other..but is it related to our real life??why??
the answer is simple..
Sometimes, there is something that come to our life. it could be anything a person,animal,things, etc.but we don't realize it because that thing maybe not use to us at that time or it juz bothering you. so,slowly you'll ignore that thing. you just left that thing behind n never take a look what is it really about. you never try to take a deep look into that thing.you keep thinking why is diz thing here with you?? you also trying to get rid off that thing..suddenly at once time you want to look back for that thing but it totally disappear..u try to find out, where is it??
oh dear!! you are late.at that time the thing is missing..
what would you feel at that time?? you'll miss that thing damn much..you feel totally lost..
BUT why should you feel that way?? because all this time you couldn't bother dat thing..u never appreciate that thing..you never ever care bout it..so why should you feel that way??
you are late dear..
now it missing and you miss it......
let us think for a while.. why don't we appreciate or grab wateva in front of us?? there is not wrong for you to spend a little time to take a look at thing that you already have..although you have another thing more interesting than the other but both of it could be meaningful to you.. as a normal human we always want something else..we always hoping for another thing that we think is better for us..but GOD know what is the best for us..
So, before you throw or ignore something you don't like..plz think twice..take the opportunity,grab all the chances that you have..when you still have it now.. then you'll not missing that thing just like that..you'll not miss that thing damn much..times cannot turn back fren..Therefore, it is not MISSING or MISS but it is MISSING and MISS...


p/s ~al-fatihah for Kaka's (my ex-schoolmate a.k.a bezfren) mother who died on 1st august 2009
~i'm missing my father n now i miss him so much..
al-fatihah for him.....